My friend is dating a loser
It doesn’t exactly hurt to remind her of the bad times he’s caused, but don’t tear your hair out expecting her to respond to facts alone.
His negative behavior may be at some level the exact thing that attracts her to him.
When a close friend is dating someone you don’t like, what do you do?
The answer is easy: you step in and do whatever it takes to break them up. Okay, we know that answer won’t win the million-dollar prize.
My theory is that in the beginning, most women don’t know the guy is a deadbeat loser.
He probably is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions.
If your friend is in a relationship that diminishes self-esteem, rather than enhancing it, pray earnestly and look for ways to build up and encourage your friend.
Or, sometimes the boyfriend or girlfriend may appear to be overly controlling, demanding, or demeaning.
Is one of your friends dating someone who disrespects her; treats her unkindly; or even lies, cheats, or takes financial advantage?